Please, Appreciate.

Main reason for every KIND of failure is almost because of a word:

APPRECIATE.


(anyhow, I'm gonna expressed more of my stand in the view of LOVE for today.)
(cause you know, I have a really = = boyfriend, although he is cute and I love him. XD)

hmmm.
where to start.
OK,
my feelings first.



Not everyone that's in love is IN LOVE indeed.

why?

they do not really UNDERSTAND each other.
(or one of the party.)



hmmm.
truthly speaking.



I've seen a lot of couples hanging around.
Lookin' so sweet.
Lookin' so happy.
&
I've seen a lot of couples broke up too.



People nowadays are always self-centered.
Everything must be done according to their wishes IF it is possible.
even LOVE too.
(haih.)


Perhaps, most of:

the boys may actually uses his "sweet languages" to make you feel happy,
make you feel worth to hang out with him,
make you FALL IN LOVE with him.

the girls may actually so naive and believe the boys.
you may give your ever precious first kiss to him,
and then being ignored by him after sometimes.



They say, this is MODERN LOVE.
(I mean, what is this kinda unreliable love.)
(it just going to ruin what LOVE is really meant to be.)

It should be truly and purely two persons fall in love,
(doesn't matter it's first-sight love, childhood love, etc. XD)
with their belief that they will maintain till the end.

and NOT for excitement purpose.
NOT blindly following the so-called LOVE trend.
NOT for anything else except the LOVE.

purely.




Young couples usually don't know how to appreciate what they have.
I admit.
Sometimes I do so.
(at least I realize XD)

They always say I LOVE YOU.
without knowing what that really mean.
for the sake of saying it.

= = lll

When you really LOVE someone,
you will know that,
it's hard to speak out that THREE WORDS.
(now that's purely sweet :P)

they may have given you many promises that ended up not realizing it but a break-up message or whatever.
(WHATEVER. = =)

I think you faced this before too right?

they ask and request you to do this and that,
then when you do these and those,
they COMPLAIN.

= =lll

(then what for you ask?)

that's not the end.
they still scold you like you done everything WRONG.
like you disturbed him/her.




people say LOVE is complicated.



now I say,
it's because:
Contradiction happens,
to one of the party in the couple.

Even friends,
if they have communication problems.
A very very best friend will no longer be a friend.
A waste isn't it?

Speak nicely to each other. 
Alright?
:D


Back to LOVE,
it's a huge loss!!!



Being in love and loved by another is a fate.
plus,
if you really love that person,
try to communicate better.
take off all the possibilities that will block you and him/her to a better future!



APPRECIATE!

Titbits of My College Life - 006 Point-of-View

I just figured out this "thing" recently.
From my Point-of-View,
its like a non-ending rumor.
its like a sad feeling surrounding me.
its like a whole lotta misunderstanding.
its like a feeling of having constipation for weeks but not dare to tell anyone about it.
(let just skip that nonsense. haha zZ)
= =

its a nightmare.
totally bad.



I am sure that you guys know college stuffs?
ASSIGNMENTS.
(another synonym for ARGHHHHHHHHHH!!!)

and you DO KNOW about GROUP work,
am I right?



Now,
let me share on this.
which I will bring forward to this post's title.
(Haih.)



in my Point-of-View:



Leader: should be the one incharging of organizing, helping and editing the whole process of the project.
Group members: should be co-operative to the leader.
and if, you think that you do not suit the style of the leader, you can just leave the group.
(This is really really matter!)
(Because the smooth flow of progress is WANTED for a good co-operation among each member.)



Now,
Story-sharing time.



I've been a leader since semester one.
There's always CONFLICTS among members.
either they hate my style.
or, they just do not understand me.



just because,
they just see things through - 
their own Point-of-View.




I've done everything just for good marks.
and it's not only for myself but also for my group members.
Can't you guys just see things,
from my Point-of-View?


Come On = =

 
It's already in the corner of submission date.
Not everyone can gather around together to have a meeting.
I believed in you guys,
I allocate everything to everyone.
Everyone did do their job.
Everyone did hand-in to me well.
On time.
Efficient.
but
Not so Effective.

and so,
its my time to do what a leader should do.
I combined everything.
I checked every single mistakes for three times and perhaps, above.

I wanna ask,
"Is it wrong to change your contents? If it's irrelavant?"

FINE.
You are pissed off just because I changed the things.
You think that you've everything correctly.

FINE.
You are mad at me just because I didn't inform you to CHANGE IT AGAIN.
and I done every amendments.

DID I EVER COMPLAINT?
DID I EVER SCOLD YOU?
DID I EVER MAKE YOU CRY?

I DID NOT.

FINE.
You misunderstand my meaning.
You thought that I think I am brilliant enough, and thus changes all of your contents.

I TELL YOU.
IF I HAVE A CHOICE,
I WOULD RATHER YOU TO DO EVERYTHING ACCORDINGLY.
PROPERLY.

AND WHY AM I LIKE THAT?

TIME.

just as simple as that.

as you know,
assignments have a dateline.

I do not want to spend twice of available time,
just waiting,
AGAIN,
edit,
AGAIN.

I do not have much time to explain furthermore of:
What you should do.
What you have to do.
What you need to search to fulfill the requirement of the questions.



PLEASE.
JUST UNDERSTAND.


You have your Point-of-View,
I have my own Point-of-View.



You might be mad at me.
and I might be mad at you at the same time.

WHY MAKE LIFE SUCH A DIFFICULT THING?

CONFLICTS HERE AND THERE.
DARE TO SAY BEHIND.
NOT DARE TO SAY IN FRONT OF ME.



IF YOU JUST DO NOT LIKE MY WAY OF DOING THINGS,
JUST TELL ME.
TELL ME SO THAT I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.
I AM NOT YOU.
SO
HOW WOULD YOU EXPECT ME TO KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL!


JUST TRY,
TO SEE IT
FROM SOMEONE ELSE'S Point-of-View.

Red Anne Anne!

Hey there :)

Actually,
I have a super black hair before.

by today, I "transformed" to a Red-Haired person,
(I know, it really look weird. XD especially on me :P)

argh.
don't have much time to spend on a new blog.
= 3 =
(Assignment's fault la.)

I promise, I will update this entire new blog frequently as I have time. :)



(continue assignment = =lll)



PS: can't wait to look at my friends' expression till tomorrow! :D